There is so much attention given to the influence and impact
that parents have on their children.
A little less attention is given to the influence of our child’s
friendships. But, how much
attention or focus is given to the influence that OUR friendships can have on
our children?
You don’t need to be a single mom to desire trustworthy
adults who can be positive role models in your children’s lives. Our children need as many
reinforcements in their lives as possible!
If you see friendships developing between your friends and
your children, cultivate that.
Allow your friends to personally invest in your kids’ lives and to be
trusted confidants, if need be.
We all want our children to be able to come to us and talk
to us about anything. But if they
really don’t want to or don’t feel comfortable to come to us about something –
wouldn’t we rather they confide in a dear friend who can give them wise advice,
than a peer of their own?
Surround your children with good examples of honest, Godly,
integrity-filled adults. Rely on
your friends to be supportive of your role as the parent and to back you up
when your child needs to hear advice from a different angle or perspective.
It’s important and vital to understand you won’t be the only
influence on your child’s life. So
make solid friendships with reputable men and women – because they will be
helping you raise your children.
